We need a witness to our lives.

There’s a billion peoplewhat does any one life really mean?

But in a marriage, you’re promising to care about everything.

The good things, the bad things, the terrible things,all of it, all of the time, every day.

You’re saying, ‘Your life will not go unnoticed because I will notice it.

Your life will not go unwitnessed because I will be your witness.

I wil be here and my time works with yours and i understand how to speak your love language and you will have to spend forever with this person even if feelings gone, can the daily work,vision, goals, habit meet yours?

What is your most two or three most important needs? (Time, words, physical, gift act of service) pick 2 can your spouse meet those teo needs daily?

We always fall in love with the most perfect aspects of each other’s personalities.

Who wouldn’t?

Anybody can love the most wonderful parts of another person.

But that’s not the clever trick.

The really clever trick is this: Can you accept the flaws? Can you look at your partner’s faults honestly and say, ‘I can work around that.

I can make something out of it.’?

Because the good stuff is always going to be there, and it’s always going to pretty and sparkly,